I would write to her and tell her you forgive her. Then get on with your life with your wonderful partner and stop thinking about it. She does not deserve a brother like you. But maybe one day she will realise that.
Love to you.
Chicken little
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I was not only just not invited, I was sent an uninvited letter..seriously?!
by freedom2bme inhere is my introduction letter.
my jw and biological sister is getting married this weekend and 3 weeks ago i received a letter actually uninviting me to this showy display.
i was stunned to say the least.
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Great News!
by haboob48 inwell i do not post here very much and usually what i have to say........well...isn't that important!
but......i am the proud grandmother of twin girls as of august 10!
i am so proud of my daughter, who is 25, just gave birth to twin girls.........no painkillers........nothing!
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chicken little
So happy for you! Congratulations and enjoy your new role in life. I am going to be granny also in November and January, my daughter is expecting and my daughter-in-law. Life is good.
Hugs Chicken little
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Where else to go.I sticking up for the WTS.
by joe134cd innow i am going to do a rear thing here and i am going to stick up for the wts.
i realise that the wts hasn't got the best of track record, and sure they have made mistakes.
but if i was to go to another church wouldn't they still have the same issues.
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chicken little
Hej,
Seems like you want to keep having a religion in your life, that is your choice and certainly not to be judged by me. However when Peter spoke to Jesus about leaving he did not speak of leaving a religion. He said that Jesus was the way, truth and life. That is very different than an organisation, church or group. I do not believe in God anymore so I feel no need to join a religion, if I did feel that need I would certainly keep Peter's words in mind and look to Jesus and him alone as the example to follow. I turned away from the WT when I could see that they were elevating themselves above Jesus and God, making commands of men more important than the example of Jesus.
All the best.
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BOE Letter: Rules to deal with rules
by pixel inas everybody jere knows, there is no requirement for a christian to "count and report" their time.
that's totally made-up by the wt/fds/gb, so, they have to make rules to deal with their own rules.... .
re: showing consideration for those involved in theocratic projects .
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I was a regular pioneer (90hours) also my husband. We had one child and I was expecting our second. My husband and I did cleaning to support ourselves. When the big renovation of a circuit assembly hall came along my husband was asked to go in fulltime. His service hours were counted as part of the renovation project. However he could not always get to the morning worship at 8.00am that came before the start of the work at the site. He was up with me at 4.00am cleaning and then drove for one hour to get to the site. One brother at the entrance kept telling him it was not good enough that he was late for the day's text. Finally my husband told him that if he was willing to take his work for him at 4 in the morning then he would gladly get there in time for the day's text.
It was shortly after the completion of the project that the elders asked me to go into the "back" room to discuss why I was low on my pioneer hours for that year, I missed the 1000hours by about 70, keeping in mind the project and being pregnant and having a small toddler. At that time I had around 6 bible studies and each assembly we had one of our studies baptiized. None of this meant anything to them, three men said I should step down as it was obviously too much for me. I was so mad, I just resigned and told them I would not be pioneering anymore, after 8 years and over 15 studies baptized. They were not thinking of my well being, only of figures as they said I had not got in my time for some months. I used to get up early to help my husband get off to the site many times pushing our old car (Yes while pregnant!) to get it going as it would often not start. We took a car full of volunteers down to the site at the weekends....none of this seemed to count in their books.
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WT wisdom - Same sex attraction does not mean you are gay
by irondork ingiven the confusion faced by gay youth in trying to navigate through a larger, hetero culture, the last thing these kids need is for a religious "authority" to come along and tell them they don't really exist.
that is exactly what the wt has done with this article at jw.org:.
http://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/family/teenagers/ask/pressure-to-be-gay/.
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chicken little
Very well put. I am in the middle of reading John Irving's novel In One Person, it is a story that really shows the heartbreak that goes along with the gender/sexuality problems experienced by young people growing up in a repressed society. Not finished reading yet. There was also a documentary on tv last night dealing with three young teenagers that were transsexual, the agony they were going through was so obvious that my 12 year old son who was watching with me said "why should it be so hard to be who you want to be?" I shudder to think of my past views on homosexuality, I now have friends who are gay and to hear their stories in trying to be accepted as human beings with a different sexual preference is at times heartbreaking.
The Watchtower society wants it both ways to sound accepting and yet really they are condemning. Their insight into human behaviour is superficial, heartless and to me repulsive. They have the same manner in dealing with alcoholism, depression and violence in the family and child abuse.
Kind regards
Chicken little
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What a fine, loving and realistic brother you are for your sister. Sadly the ones that receive the most love and help can at times be so blind to who really are there to stand by them. The only comfort is that you and your wife, mum etc know that you are doing your best with only good intentions.
Love
Chicken Little
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please help
by joyfulfader ini am posting to ask this group of wonderful people to help my friend who is with me now.
we are discussing her serious doubts and the barriers she is facing as the wife of an elder with small children.
she is desperately looking for help to pull away without causing dissention in her otherwise very good marriage.
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please help
by joyfulfader ini am posting to ask this group of wonderful people to help my friend who is with me now.
we are discussing her serious doubts and the barriers she is facing as the wife of an elder with small children.
she is desperately looking for help to pull away without causing dissention in her otherwise very good marriage.
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A JW mother and her children just came to my door......
by haboob48 infirst of all let me say that i choked!
i choked because i told myself if they came back that i would have a field day!
didn't happen.
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Same thing happened to me on Saturday, two men, from a congregation in our area, they knew we did not go to meetings but said they were out in service and would not just go by without calling. I was very kind and polite, told them we were just fine and explained a little of the trauma we have had with our son being injured in Afghan. They said we were always welcome at the meetings and I said I knew that was the case. I told them we never discuss our reasons for not attending with anyone and would not do so in the future. The said they would pop by another time and I was very kind and said they were welcome but that we are just fine and happy as we are. I felt no panic, no need to tell them about their religion, no sense of anger ...nothing. Just like a worldly person who gets called on, on a Saturday morning. Quite funny though because my husband was downstairs marking school papers and he had come up to see who it was, he had on a black tshirt with a huge devil head and underneath it says: God is busy, can I help you? I laughed so much thinking about how they would have responded if he had anwsered the door, former elder and speaker at district conventions etc. Funny.
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I would love for you to know my Oompa.... (from one of his closest friends)
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chicken little
Thank you for writing, what must have been painful and sad to write. Thinking of you and your family and so sorry for your loss.
It should have been different.
Love
Chicken little